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2 Minute Warning

Have you ever noticed how often cliches conflict? For example, many people believe in the theory "Que Sera Sera" (Whatever happens, happens), while others such as myself follow the saying "Carpe Diem" (Seize the day). Whatever quote you use is up to you; the purpose is to foster knowledge and improvement.

One of my new favorite sayings is "When the rubber meets the road..."; It refers to racing, and is analogous to a moment of truth or important opportunity. The quote is used to define levels of performance or being "clutch" in pressure situations. What I've learned over the past few weeks is that those who are unique, talented, and dedicated separate themselves when the rubber meets the road.

The lesson became all too real this past week, as I experienced both grave disappointment and incredulous exhilaration in one day. That day I stood before my hero, filmmaker Spike Lee, and pitched my show with pride and zeal. It was a total shock that I could find the energy; just a few hours prior, I took part in one of the most frustrating and hurtful arguments I've ever had.

Each of the situations shared one trait: the participants were given an opportunity to make a statement. With Spike, I had a chance to show him what I was made of, and he had an open opportunity to respond. After hearing his opinion on my work, I hold him in even higher regard. In my other conversation, each person had a moment to be perfectly open and honest. That did not happen, and as a result, a cherished friendship now stands in a severely damaged state.

As you continue to walk through life, you will be afforded various opportunities. It is your responsibility to take advantage and own those moments. You can be the Kobe, Tom Brady, or A-Rod in your field or relationships. Be known as the man/woman who is clutch in the "Two minute warning". That is the time when greats are born. You are great, so let it show through.


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