Please Stop Wearing That: Trends the Opposite Sex Wish You Would Stop Following

Horrid. Appalling. Terrible. ABYSMAL.

These are not adjectives describing my win-loss record on Madden (I'm nice on NBA 2K though). It's a reference to the disturbing fashion trends created, maintained, and perpetrated by my generation. As you look out your window, drive through the neighborhood, or shop at the local Super Fresh, you serve witness to god awful fashion statements that make you question yourself. Are these the descendants of Lena Horne, Dorothy Dandridge, Run DMC, Denzel, Halle Berry, Pam...Grier (say it slow, for emphasis)? Have you ever seen Elizabeth Taylor...Hugh Hefner...shoot, James Bond movies? I mention the previous, because these fashion "faux pas" know no race, and apparently no gender. In 2012, it is possible to see both women AND men be...as the kids say, "Ratchet!". 

There's a difference...one of these accessories
needs to stay in the house.

Looking at the stylish personalities of the 70s, 80s, and 90s, it makes our current state appear to be in direct opposition of the tradition of the young generation. Throughout history, the youth of the world created classic, timeless looks that bring forward a smile; some of today's styles, however, are no laughing matter. They are bold enough to bring shame to races, and so outlandish they can reverse physical attraction. 

This is unique in the case of females, where you are appealing in nearly all scenarios, but even your behavior must be addressed. With the help of you the reader, I was able to hone in on the worst of the worst. Based off the comments of the male readers, personalities, and social commentators, a list of six terrible style trends females wear/use was compiled. Listed below is a list of fashion statements that need to be silenced immediately:

Women

1. Night Clothes in the Daytime- Yeah, we know...you don't care what no else thinks. It's comfortable to have on a hair scarf and your pajamas...but not outside. As Ray Charles said, "Night time is the right time." No self-respecting male is going to approach you dressed like that...looking like an extra from House Party 2. 

2. Nicki/Kim Impersonators- The wigs and wild highlights are their thing. Beeeee yourself. As cool as Nicki makes it look, men are not normally attracted to women who talk in this manner.

3. Flesh Tone ANYTHING- The immediate thought when someone mentions flesh tone stockings, slips, panties, etc is Sis. Jenkins picking her outfit for First Sunday. Please don't wear these ladies...*shudders*. 

4. Makeup Mishaps- As observers, men believe makeup to be a very delicate process. Like cutting hair, you can do it yourself, but it's best to be experienced before trying such an important task. In addition, it is common that men enjoy ladies wearing all that cake, cake, cake, cake, cake, cake (Yeah!!! Sorry...they call me "Chris Brown-Skin"). Let us see the real you, ladies. We don't mind  just foundation...I think that's what y'all call it.

AAAGGGGHH!!!!!  Put some shoes on...my goodness!

5. Taking Off Your Shoes In The Club- It's 11:47 and you've been out on the floor looking...scrumptious. You got those extra tall pumps on, the one's every girl has a pair but you got on a different color so it's cool. The fellas are all over you and you're shaking that thing like a MAGIC 8 BALL! All of a sudden, you feel a sudden tingle in your toes. Your feet are killing you. 

Don't you take them shoes off with no flats to put on.

The hell are you doing??? Didn't you just see shorty throw up on the floor? Ladies, it's nothing more disappointing than seeing a potential in the club, in the cab, or walking home barefoot. Where's your pride? Where's your dignity?

6. Wearing "Too Tight" Tights- Tights...a great invention. Praise to the brother who made those (it had to be a brother). But But But But But But BUTTTTTTTTT...It's not for everyone. If your leggings sag, chill. If your leggings reveal everything about you, they are dare I say, too tight! It's okay, sweetheart! 

Ladies, men (most of us...some of us...a few of us) do a lot to make you smile. Though at times you deem it unnecessary to reciprocate this action, shoring up these issues would go a long way. We are in agreement that you could say no, and a thirsty brother would come behind us and follow your every command, self-esteem nowhere to be found. Subconsciously, you don't really want that. You want the man you had your eyes on to handle that task. He'll be a lot easier to keep a grip on by saying no to these fashion failures.

To find out about the poor trends of males, read part two of "Please Stop Wearing That."




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